
In my recounting of the “Studio City Camera” story, where I walked around the affluent Colfax area at noon and happened to meet another photographer, I apparently touched a nerve.
About 11am, on Tuesday, I had parked my car on in front of 4107 Troost, in Studio City, which is a lovely 1936 ranch with a picket fence and mature trees. I came there to shoot some photos.
Then I wandered around the neighborhood and walked about six blocks east towards Tujunga. I saw a woman with a Canon DSLR, also taking photos on Kraft. We stopped to chat. It turned out that she was there to scout locations for KMart. I told her about the Troost house, but couldn’t quite remember how to find it. She remarked that the house “sounded perfect”. I casually said to her, “Well if you want to give me a lift back to my car which is parked in front ot it, I can show you where it is.”
She said to me, “No. That would be TOO WEIRD.” So she got into her car, drove off, probably not ever finding the “ideal house”. I eventually walked back to my car.
Evidently, she used great judgment in refusing me a ride. But…..
It’s a fact that perhaps it isn’t smart for a woman to pick up a strange man and give him a ride. But to some readers, this woman would have been taking an enormous risk, to transport me, in broad daylight, six blocks back. If perhaps, I was a violent man, I might have carjacked and raped her, yet neither one of us was intoxicated, and I was clearly an intelligent, articulate, and helpful fellow photographer.
I also wrote that I am clean shaven and white, which apparantly was “racist”. That’s what I am and I make no apologies. I don’t have tattoos, or a pierced tongue and metal ringed nostrils, and I don’t have a big build, with steroids or weigh 250 lbs. Do you see my point? I’m 5’9, 175 lbs, with a short haircut.
Someone wrote that Ted Bundy, the killer, was also white and clean shaven. So what? If it’s wrong to point out that most murders in this city are committed by non-whites, than I will politely refer you to the LA TImes homicide report. The victims are almost entirely black and Hispanic. That in itself is an injustice and wrong.
And it is also “sexist” to broadly label any man, such as me, as a threat to women. Don’t put me into the category of Ted Bundy when I more clearly fit into the shoes of Woody Allen.
The same Studio City women, who are so averse to the “awful risk” of giving me a ride, will be speeding at 50 mph down Moorpark in their 2 ton S.U.V’s, drinking coffee and talking on their mobile phones oblivious to anyone else’s life, but confident that their own pleasure and comfort is foremost.
Funny that what we fear the most is the least dangerous and what we do daily is oftentimes the riskiest.
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