
“A bill introduced in the Ohio Legislature this month would bar all adoptions and foster care by gays and lesbians. It is among efforts in at least 16 states to put into law the view that children should be cared for only by a mother and a father or by heterosexual singles.”-USA TODAY, February 21, 2006
A UCLA demographer, Gary Gates, estimates that about 250,000 children are being raised by same-sex couples. Yet Senator Bill Frist (R-TN) would still like to pursue a bill making those children’s parents illegal under the law by forbidding same-sex marriage. We know the GORP ( Grand Old Reactionary Party) thinks warrantless spying is OK, but what about warrantless prejudice?
Since Mr. Frist also believes that a Christian home is the best home, maybe he should disallow Jews or atheists from adopting? How can you raise a child in a home where Christ isn’t? Yet we wisely counsel ourselves that religion is a private matter and permit non-Christians to adopt.
When a gay couple adopts children, the unspoken fear is that they will raise the kids to “become gay”. Yet if many gay people were born into heterosexual families, how come they don’t come out straight? If the ideal family is a father and mother, then why are so many of these male/female unions ending in divorce or enduring as miserable partnerships? There are thousands of poor and abused children in the nation who are crying out for a decent home. Who hears their cries? Not some churchmen…
As usual, conservative Christians are in the forefront to prohibit gay adoption. “These people can’t reproduce,” says Rev. Russell Johnson of the Ohio Restoration Project. A profound observation . Isn’t a failure to reproduce the single most likely reason for any couple wanting to adopt?
What about the immoral behaviorof gay people? The drugs, promiscuity and disease? What about the lifestyle of straight people? The accidental shootings, the spousal abuse, the ugly wallpaper? There are grown men who behave badly and they still can adopt….as long as they don’t proclaim their love for another man! But let’s forget about the adults and go back to what is best for the children….
What is the perfect kind of environment for a child? There is no “ideal”. We would all love to come from the richest, most loving, and eternally cheerful homes. But people go through hard times, get divorced, fired, sick, angry, bitter…and still (sometimes) manage to be good parents. If you deny a gay person the right to be a parent, you are denying that he is fully human.
I proclaim: all God’s children are human beings, despite the teachings of some of the “God-fearing”.
Can anyone refute this?
Of course many do. The loudest moral voices against gay adoption and marriage eminate from the old slave owning states of the Confederacy–the ones with “colored only” drinking fountains and “octoroons”. The region that broke apart families, so that slavery could endure, is now lecturing the rest of the nation on how to best promote family life.
Little do they realize that gays are actually saving family life by actively seeking participation in it.